Personal Choice is now the new mantra on online mating.  Today, it 's all about taking over from parents and finding one's soul mate.  Sudharashan Murthy's parents wanted a girl from the same caste, while for sheta's parents caste was not an issue.  A project Manager with Colliers International, Murthy's family is based in Bangalore.  While Shweta is from Kolkata.  They met each other on the net and love blossomed.  But, Shweta a web designer had hearing impairment and lot of "its"  and "but" about relationship with a Normal man.  "To convince her and to communicate better.  I started learning Sign Language."  recalls Murthy.  It took a lot of hard work to convince the parents,"  he says, buy they finally give in, and are happ6y they did Sudharashan and Shweta welcome the "new mindscape" amongst a lot young people.  They see aground them.